You don't need to have enemies .By Cesar Reyes Torres

I detest the saying “ I can be your best friend or your worst enemy”….Not everyone in the world is meant to be your friend, but that doesn't mean they should be your enemy.Why anybody would be comfortable having an enemy, doesn’t make sense. In life you will have people who you consider friends, and there may come a time when you don’t see eye to eye. If your fortunate enough, you can just get beyond those disagreements, and still be friends. But if not, your always better off just gently and slowly cutting that person out of your life and going your separate ways. And if it was someone who you were never friends with in the first place, your better off not wasting any energy on hating them. Hate can consume your heart, and it is not confined to one section of your life. Hate is a virus, and once you have it, it can and will do as viruses do and spread to other areas of your life. When someone is sick, you can tell, and people even ask them about it. And if hate consumes your heart, people can tell and it shows. As humans, we will get sick from time to time, and feel anger. But like with any disease, hate has a cure. In the matter of the disease called Hate, love is the cure. Its hard to love the people that piss you off. But just remember that you don’t know the details of their life, and you don’t know what kind of things they are going through in their mind, you don’t know their thoughts, and you can’t read their heart. Being able to forgive and letting go of any hate that you feel is a blessing if it comes from the heart. Hate is not a source of strength or a motivating factor to do anything positive in life. But a person whose heart is consumed by love will stand out.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.For we know in partand we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes,what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

And now these three remain: faith, hope & love. But the greatest of these is love.
-1 Corinthians 13:4-13


All I am simply stating is that if you cannot bring yourself to love someone,life is too short to waste your time hating them